• What does having a successful relationship mean to you? 
  • Have you ever been impacted by infidelity? 
  • How? 
  • Who have you known that has dealt with infidelity?What happened?  
  • What are your fears around infidelity? 
  • Is monogamy important to you? Why or why not
  • What about monogamy is important to you? 
  • How do you define monogamy?  
  • Do you want to know what I think about while masturbating? 
  • Do you want to know what I think about while having sex together? 
  • Are you comfortable with me having friendships with ex-lovers? 
  • Who do you emotionally confide in? 
  • Is it ok to flirt casually with strangers? 
  • What do you consider flirting? 
  • What is private to our relationship vs. ok to discuss with close friends?  
  • Am I allowed to talk about our sex life with my friends? 
  • What makes you jealous? 
  •  If one of us feels tempted to break our agreement, what steps should we take?