What does having a successful relationship mean to you? 

Have you ever been impacted by infidelity? 

How? 

Who have you known that has dealt with infidelity?What happened?  

What are your fears around infidelity? 

Is monogamy important to you? Why or why not

What about monogamy is important to you? 

How do you define monogamy?  

Do you want to know what I think about while masturbating? 

Do you want to know what I think about while having sex together? 

Are you comfortable with me having friendships with ex-lovers? 

Who do you emotionally confide in? 

Is it ok to flirt casually with strangers? 

What do you consider flirting? 

What is private to our relationship vs. ok to discuss with close friends?  

Am I allowed to talk about our sex life with my friends? 

What makes you jealous? 

 If one of us feels tempted to break our agreement, what steps should we take?