Take Turns Giving And Receiving

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Taking turns Giving and Receiving pleasure is one of the most powerful reframes you can make to gain access to way more pleasure and connection.

Taking turns is yet another gift from our erotic massage lineage – on a massage table it is clear how we can take turns giving and receiving touch, centering the needs and desires of one body at a time so we can lavish it with as much presence and pleasure as possible.

Taking turns is not about “you do me and then I’ll do you” – it is about dropping into a shared erotic experience with focused attention. Listen in to find out how this simple idea of taking turns can emerge in sex, love and life.


Bring this Pleasure Principle to life by practicing the 3 minute game - click here for a walkthrough. 


Pleasure Practices

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Welcome

  • Why Pleasure Practices?
  • How To Use This Library

Solo Pleasure Practices

  • Body Awareness: Relaxed Body Scan (15 mins)9
  • Arousal Awareness: Aroused Body Scan (10+ mins)
  • Body Awareness & Self Regulation: Self Holds (5 mins)
  • Body Awareness: Dance to Feel (3 mins +)3
  • Pelvic Floor Exercises for Awareness, Strength & Tone
  • Touch Skills: Object Exploration (5 mins)

Erotic Breath Work

  • Erotic Breath Work: Introduction
  • Erotic Breath Work: Relaxing Breath (5-20 mins)
  • Erotic Breath Work: Charging Breath
  • Erotic Breath Work: The Big Draw

Partnered Pleasure Practices

  • Taking Turns Giving & Receiving Pleasure: The "Three Minute Game" (10-20 mins)
  • Giving & Receiving Touch: Foot Massage 5 Minute Follow Along (10-15 mins)
  • Giving & Receiving Erotic Attention : Guided Practice (30 mins)
  • Experience: Boundaries Consent & Safewords (Guided Interactive Practice, 30 mins)2
  • Communicating After Erotic Explorations

Interactive Tools & Surveys

  • Erotic Distractions Inventory
  • Tell Me What You Want...1
  • Relaxed Body Scan Awareness Inventory
  • Aroused Body Scan Awareness Inventory1

Pleasure Principles

  • Slow Down For Better Sex
  • Recalibrate Towards Pleasure
  • Sixty Second Pleasure Points
  • Savoring : A Foundational Pleasure Practice (1 minute!)1
  • Take Turns Giving And Receiving