Questions To Discern Between Fantasies and Desires

Questions To Discern Between Fantasies and Desires

When you think about your fantasy, what are you most excited about? Pick at least three details that really excite you: physical, emotional or energetic.
What is the version of the fantasy that you may never even say out loud - dig deep and discover the wildest, most impossible version of at least one of your fantasies.
How does this fit in with your ideas of your highest self?
If your fantasy conflicts with your personal values, how so?
What parts need to stay as fantasy, and what parts are actual Desires?
What is to be gained by this Fantasy becoming a Desire? What might be lost? What do you really want?
What are you afraid of?
What is stopping you from realizing your Desires, if anything?
What desires are important enough to you to take action on?

Considering the answers the questions above, ask yourself the most important question of all:

What do you want to experience more of in your erotic life?