Where did you learn about sex when you were a kid?

What were you taught about masturbation as a child?

Who was one of your first celebrity crushes? What attracted you to them?

Who was one of your first celebrity erotic role models, someone you wanted to be like?

What do you want to experience more of in your body?

What sex acts do you want more of?

How do you want to feel during sex?

How do you want to feel about your sex life?

What emotional experience do you crave more of during sex?

Are there spiritual values or beliefs you want to express through your sexuality?

What kind of erotic relationship do you want to have?

What attitudes and values do you want to define your erotic life together?

How do you want to be treated by your lover?

How do you want to express your love for your partner?

What is one of your favorite erotic memories about us?

Describe how a great orgasm feels to you using only weather metaphors (or food metaphors, or colors, or ...)

What is one pleasure you want to experience more of in the next three months? 

What is your favorite sex scene in a movie?

What fictional character do you find most sexy and why?