Many people have asked about the best way to check in and communicate after an erotic exploration or partnered pleasure practice. Here's a few suggested to get you started in post-coital communication. 

Allow at least an hour after your date ends before talking about it. You can even wait until the next day. Then set aside a few minutes to have a conversation about what 
happened. A drive or a walk together can help carve out some conversational time. 

  • What was your favorite part of the experience?
  • Did you feel like your wish list was paid attention to? 
  • Is there anything you could have been more specific about in making your requests?
  • Were your lover's requests clear enough for you?
  • Were you able to tell what your lover enjoyed the most?
  • What kind of communication would have been useful? 
  • What was your experience of Giving? 
  • What did you enjoy the most? 
  • What would make it even better next time?